Going on vacation is a time to relax with your children and make positive memories, but it might be a little stressful for parents who are planning the vacation and have to follow a parenting plan.
There are several ways that you can make the situation a little easier. These three are likely applicable to every situation involving child custody and a vacation.
1. Leave ample time for travel
Trying to squeeze as much fun and relaxation into the vacation is common; however, be sure that you leave ample time for traveling to the destination. This can help to reduce the stress that comes with trying to meet tight or unrealistic time frames for getting to a specific place by a specific time.
2. Choose a suitable location
Be sure that you’re planning the vacation somewhere your child can travel. There may be geographical limitations to where you’re allowed to take them without the other parent’s or court’s permission. The location should also have activities or attractions that will appeal to the children.
3. Plan for memories
Memories that occur during a vacation can last forever. Consider making time and ways for your children to share their memories with their other parent. This isn’t a way for you to brag about what you’re doing. Instead, ensure the focus is on the child being able to connect with their other parent.
The key is to know what guidelines the parenting plan contains. Establishing terms in the parenting plan that govern vacations is critical. Working with someone familiar with these situations may be beneficial because these terms must all be set in the child’s best interests.